Is there anything in writing as far as a parenting plan or court order on who has custody? Its really a shame what the child is having to go through. All I want is to know shes safe, ok, breathing well, and just hear how her day is. When they allow my daughter to hold the phone, the father and his parents talk over her loudly, distract her in the background, push buttons on the phone to make noise, mute the phone, and tell her what to say (e.g. So the mothers mental state isnt most likely capable of raising her. The father falsified a restraining order and after I was off of probation from falsified charges from the girlfriend, I took the kids and went back home to NM. I wasnt aware enforcing court orders was a nuisance to the police and I an pretty pissed that 3 officers have threatened ME with jail when i havent committed a crime, why not threaten the POS who causes these reports in the first place?? My wife has stated that she does not want the cvhildren to visit me this year because she wants them to get used to living in AZ. Did he speak poorly of you to the children? classes under my belt, Im able to be the loving caring mother I have always File a motion to modify the parenting plan. That leaves 3 hours not the 6 hours ordered. My ex wife is refusing now to bring my son half way for my visitation time. The last time my brother heard or seen his daughter was 2/7/2010. If you are uncomfortable then suggest that you go to a Chucky Cheese of Mc Donalds playland until as supervised until she can reestablished that relationship again. Of course, he called his lawyer and was going to try to get me with contempt. I dont know where they go to school, I only found out where they live because their mother responded to the contempt charges, I have attempted Facebook contact with my children but was intercepted by their mother, my oldest has been to the hospital for a broken foot that Ive never been informed of, basically, I know nothing about my children. and then all this last week hes like can I have our son early? Me have joint physical and legal with primary home at dads. They did not care about that though. I do not teach them to hate their dad, I tell them the truth in the past when they asked about him, but now they do not ask for him and the children are just 5,5, and 4. So what can a single working mom do of a 2-year old child whos dad has a job under the table living on his own with a g/f affording new tattoos yet has not paid court ordered child support of $278.00a month in over a year? I called the police multiple times and he was finally returned to me about 13 hours later. This weekend when I went to pick them up he made me stand out in the cold and rain with him for 2 hrs before he would let me take the kids home. No! The kids are normally with him during the summer, but because of unforeseen circumstances, they cant go with him this summer. She has called social services on me 8 times when i let her have visitation and its time for ne to pick them up they start crying saying they hate me i ask them why they say it they tell me Grandma tells me too! Is this true? Its wrong that the courts consider the mother to be the primary parent just because they have the vagina that birthed the child. He has taken over $100000 from the mother of the child as well as beaten taken her self pride and dignity away by being abusive. Thanks for your help. They have joint custody but she does absolutely nothing to make the arrangement work. They put an armband on the child that matches up with you and the child cannot leave unless you are with them. In the state of maryland can you give up your rights and be free of child support? My ex was asked- did you set this up? A father you are awesome. Dont back down, your child is being kidnapped against a COURT ORDER thats how the Court sees it she is going against THEM they dont care about you so much. I cant keep driving up the old neighborhood, he talks about me to the teachers and I am seen as a nuisance. This change is not permanant, and now she is stating that she wants to go by the court ordered standard visitation. If so he can never return. GROW UP PEOPLE! When they go out the will do a report, or in DCFs case an investigation. It has worked out beautifully until recently when my 12 year old has started expressing that she doesnt want to be at her dads anymore because of his new wife treating her poorly and being mean. ann. As the non-custodial parent, if I send my child back to the custodial parent when I know for certain that my child is being exposed to marijuana by not just the custodial parent but siblings as well, am I just as guilty? he has visitation but not for this. File anyways denying you your parental rights is illegal you will be granted custody and then can have the police looking for your child. Why people cheat so much? I dont know where you live, but I am a father who has custody of 2 girls. Now what do you do? It has also helped identify which supportive documents I need to present as evidence. The oldest one is 5 and not my biological child the youngest one which is and thats a long story in itself but I was not aware she stopped taking birth control she did not inform me and I found out months before she was born that she hadnt opened or taken any of the birth control for 2 months consecutively right before she got pregnant. Im in Ny. There is a Child Support Enforcement agency in every state but not a Visitation/Parenting Time Enforcement Agency. It hurts me to see my daughter hurt! For the past week her mother has been calling harassing me about her child support for December, which I explained to her I am no longer paying. Father is just doing this to not have to pay child support anymore, get me upset, and to try to get me in trouble. Good luck! the father is now hiding the child from me. His father and I have always agreed to compromise. I have no clue what my children even almost look like.. She called about once or twice every month and never mentioned trying to see my step son. huh? Indiana my dear friends, go figure. I am not sure what will happen if you try this, but explain to her that if the agreement is not met completely, then you are going to have to get the courts involved. More information: The step-grandmother has moved around in the past two years to 4 different places. Each time the children were returned to the non custodial parent! What I mean is that you even said in your story that Does this void the visitation and joint custody agreement that was in place when we divorced? Hubby (primary custodial parent) had to file an emergency order to drive over 6 hours to retrieve child. Id really like to know what the best next steps are and what can I accomplish. We have taken him to dentist appointments and will be taking him to make sure hes up to date on shots so he can start kindergarten. Well he also said that he might just let my oldest just stay with me due to personal reasons and now I cant get him to answer text messages or even just meet me with his things and im lost on what I can or need to do. The divorce decree ordered her to maintain their two childrens residence in the Texas county where they lived (or an adjacent county) for four years. Now, If the 17 1/2 year old child decides he wants to spend the entire 2 weeks with the noncustodial parent (his dad). Would the custodial interference still apply since it is a temporary order? Or will he still hav custody? The ex-wife is not encouraging him to see his father, only says, what do you want me to do, I cant make him come out of the house. My husband believes that she is also negatively impacting the relationship with the son through her words and actions but thats impossible to prove since hes not there. Check my story which is a few stories above yours. So what should I expect? god bless you. Can i still be held in contempt. to stop. Section 26A: Kidnapping of minor or incompetent by relative; punishment Section 26A. WHEN THAT HAPPEN.. Im not a lawyer or a psychologist, but I have volunteered with battered women for 20 years. Steph, stay out of it, let them resolve it. Before Ms. R.S. He told my daughter that now, shes not getting her daughter back at all! My brother was granted monitor visits. So her mother said he isnt coming to see me any more if I want to see him come to Portland. I didnt get to see her on Fathers Day and she thinks it is totally acceptable for my child to have been sending the day with her moms new boyfriend. Grow up. It could be grounds for reducing mothers visitation. He also had a lawyer and I didnt, so I was forced to represent myself. I worked FDNY was severely injured and out on 3/4s disabled retired now. The process of determining the custody rights of a separated or divorcing couple is a challenging and emotionally charged issue. Until 2 years ago when our local Cps took an Most police will tell you Take it back to court. Is this legal? Good luck. Will law enforcement (police) go with the non-c parent to claim the child for visitation and enforce the order there and at that time? A good judge will help you through the process if that happens. Good luck. He could petition the court, and the court could tell you that you can only live within a 100 mile radius of him. My ex let my 12 year old daughter read the restraining order, and he told her I was lying, which caused a lot of problems between me and her. Im going through a custody battle with my ex we already went through mediation and have court next week. Enter hon. I just dont know what to do! Its frustrating because I would never put my kids in harms way. Updated: 22.50. What are my chances of a positive outcome? I want my son returned. Parenting Classes state that 60% of the fathers go away within the first two years; 75% of bankruptcies are filed within 2 years of a divorce/custody battle. How can you meet this objective in the state of ct. at 3 am I awake to hear banging at my front door. My ex picked up the children from my house and then drives across the street from us to target and puts the boys in his moms car and then goes to work. What can I do to get my son back. However after i got off the pphone with him on the 4th my sister calls me accusing me of being an alcoholic (not true) and says I need to move down there. I just want my kids back. I have physical custody today is the day he comes home and his mother agreed to let him come home early because she was working (we made the plans on Thursday). She did have one place but it was infested with bed bugs and the child would come over with bites all over him. Getting this reversed is as hard as it is for a man to get placement in the first place. I truly think there is much more to this story so all I can say is put aside control and show your son some love and respect on his decisions as it will go a lot further in your relationship. But, thank you for responding so quickly, please next time DONT UPPERCASE me, and jump to some major erratical conclusions, not everyone is out to get their ex. Regardless what the law says the mother has the upperhand unless one of two things happen. The Parenting Plan shows that I am supposed to have our daughter that weekend. I havent heard from his mother in 3 years. just went separate ways. I am having trouble with the state attorneys office signing off or following thur on a arrest warrant for interference with child custody of a 20 month old child. 06-2013 it took everything in me to forgive the possibility of David molesting Caleb, And does she have a good chance at getting shared custody terminated? You both agreed to change it in the first place, you both need to agree to change your changes or to at least give reasonable notice of any unilateral changes. I said, You know I have had this planned for weeks to go to the lake and you made this Summer visitation sch. It could all be empty threats to get a rise and if not they broke the law and dont feel guilty filing. Story short forgetabout it. Whats happening now that they found the child? If you just talk bad about him, you look like the bad parent, because you had a child with him and choose him as the parent/partner. These laws are very simular to the federal laws as each state has signed on to, UCCJEA. Unemployment, mode of transportation and undocumented accusations do not hold up in court nor does a police report unless there has been an arrest. He even has gone so far as to tell my probation officer that if I go see my son he will have me arrested. I guess I just want to see it for myself I mean they could have made a mistake and therefore a loophole for him to get his son back. In nc. Best of luck. First I want you to know I am not an attorney but going the the Hell of child custody and visitation has given my great experience. Im scared hell hurt her or worse run away w her!! I live in New Hampshire, but the mother left the marital home with my daughter and relocated to Florida. I denied visitation for 3 years now and found out that they gave custody to this psycho (who is also a person of interest in an unsolved homicide case that was related to drugs, mind you and he is one of the biggest cocaine dealers in his town, btw) and I am being charged with custodial interference. Plus when I look up to see if I have an outstanding restoration fees and there are none!!!!! It is actually you, at this stage who is doing the controlling, because you were given way too much control by the court to begin with. so the mother insistence on keeping him even thought i am primary custodian. She would always show up before a court hearing, then if the court hearing was postponed, she would disappear again for months at a time. Please do not include personal or contact information. Car is in his name, I have temp custody and use of car. I clearly stated to CPS that I did not want him to be around his dad without supervision and now he has him. My older sister lives there as well and spoils my daughter and encourages her to babysit my elderly father while she goes out with friends and on trips. We are also taking her to court for contempt in May so she will have to answer for what she is doing. When My son was almost 16 years old his father brought me back to court for support , stating he HAD to raise Jordan all these years He lied in front of the magistrate telling me my son wanted a relationship knowing I would just agree to pay anything and I did. the non-custodial parent has court ordered visitation over the childs christmas break from school and the custodial wont send the child), what recourse does the non-custodial parent have? We went to court for four years over and over again before she finally showed up. Try to defuse issues rather than assume there may be an issue that will not exist. within 48 hours. He said I commuted adultry, is on drugs and that I withdrew my affection from him. If a judge feels that one parent has coehorsed a child to file for emancipation he can hold that parent in contempt resulting in possible jail time, change guardianship or flat out refuse the case in its entirety. So, what do you mean got you for custodial interference? The grandmother, Symone, has domestic abuse reports filed against her from when my sons father was eight years old. Please explain what you are asking. What do I do to protect my rights, And my daughters rights? My question is: Can my exhusband simply keep my 18 year old? It has since been reversed according to her mother, but I have not been notified by DCFS or the courts and the mother is now requesting that I return our daughter as in our divorce decree she has primary residence. Its more of a spite sort of thing towards us. We had a girl together our kids are always been brother sister and very close . Watch her face light up. Presuming his ex-wife cares for the child 24-hours a day the rest of the week, provides all the transportation, cooks meal, attends to all his sons needs, etc. Parenting time is a time to be a parent to your child. how would you yourself like to sit in the dirty diaper for so long and have a sore butt or throw up your food with acid and not be able to say if your uncofertable???? Due to the only phone in the house being his cell phone, (she had a phone but he got rid of it to save money) the only way for me to even talk to her is to call his phone on the weekend, and request him to hand his phone to her. he wants to come back and live with me. I was wondering something my ex husband has full custody of my child and has been indicted on 3 charges of manuf,sell and distribution of a drug substance what steps other than filing for full custody can I take. Mile radius of him child that matches up with you and the child is having to go to the?. 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