Its uncommon to go halfway down the road of planning a certain type of wedding and then going in the opposite direction.. They are adults, two grown @ss adults DO NOT need and should NEVER EVER ask a young adult to pay for their wedding costs, not even the shower. I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. You can change your preferences. Keep it friendly, and mention that you'd love to see their friends (or spend time with their children) another time. Run, OP. There is one topic that I see mentioned a lot, that being the 67/33 part. I would not marry a man who condoned this behavior from his mother. Dec. 21, 2020. I'll try to digest every input you lovely people gave me! Redditor u/WitchyGothLove, a 24-year-old woman with whom Bored Panda got in touch, recently came over to the Am I The A-Hole subreddit to share a confrontation she had with some of her friends. AITA? After it's AITA for not getting along with my sister in law? The ones who couldn't afford it politely declined, as should she in your case. Woman's Fianc Uninvited To Wedding Because Relationship 'Invalid': AITA Life Woman Furious After Fianc Isn't Invited To Friend's Wedding Because Their Relationship Isn't 'Valid' by Ben Acosta SDI Productions / Getty Images Weddings are known for inducing so much stress. Years back we agreed that, to not keep a financial burden on one's side, we'd follow the following rule: Sum of my salary + Sum of her salary = Total Salary; My salary / Total Salary = My percent contribution; Her salary / Total Salary = Her percent contribution; At times those numbers were 80/20, 75/25 and so on, it changes based on our income. As, after all, I'm not doing this for presents, but rather as a celebration of our love, something that we'd be sharing with our dearest. NTA. I've let her know that we will split the finances percent wise for up to 35 invites from each other's side, and that she'd have to cover entirely the extra guests that'd be coming from her side (any guest above 35). We loved her since the first day we met her. After letting her know of the above and that she'd have to cover entirely the extra guests cost, she got mad and wants to cancel the wedding altogether and just register our marriage at the Register Office without any ceremony (which I strongly disagree with). Therefore, we'd have overall about 90-100 guests, give or take. There is ALOT of background info with about 6 - 7 years worth of information but the TLDR version is this: Back in September 2016, my mom matched with a person on an old person dating website. She said that she told him the truth, and the husband lashed out stating that he was . Frank Geier (pronouns he/him) is a nerd and father of three who recently moved to Alabama. NTA - that's usually how it's done for weddings and to expect anything different is strange. By rejecting non-essential cookies, Reddit may still use certain cookies to ensure the proper functionality of our platform. Assuming that you don't weaponize the fact that she misses the wedding. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: Because my sister might not be coming to my wedding as a result of me refusing to pay for her ticket. By accepting all cookies, you agree to our use of cookies to deliver and maintain our services and site, improve the quality of Reddit, personalize Reddit content and advertising, and measure the effectiveness of advertising. They asked me to have the bridal shower at my home since most of the guests live close to here and they now live in another state. L_Moo_S 27 min. In our culture, the wedding is a very small event with close family and a few friends but the wedding reception is a large (200-300 people) come and go or come and stay until the end event with food, music, dancing, etc. Even though this sounds like a great alternative, the parents were quite upset with their daughter spending their $5K on caterers and wedding-related things that they couldnt get back. It is actually just normal to pay for your own wedding costs. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. In her post, Reasonable-Issue2334 told her older sister it was unfair that she didn't get the same "nurturing environment" growing up that her own children have. On the other hand, she didn't ask for more than what was remaining. It was never expected that the couple would pay for our airfare or our hotel or our transportation. I make about 6 times more than my parents combined, she makes about 2 times more than her parents combined. While we all know how much stress and sleepless nights preparation for the wedding might cause, it was shared that oftentimes people like to plan everything themselves. Couples like to put their own personal touches on their weddings and also save money on hiring a wedding planner, shared the CEO of, Get the best of Bored Panda in your inbox. Sorry, this post was deleted by the person who originally posted it. AmItheAsshole PrimaryDiet5940 11520 G 2023-01-04 12:50:59 My son is getting married to a wonderful woman. While the older siblings decided to use this money for their future home, the third daughter wanted this sum to be used for the wedding celebration. I would not marry a man who is, in effect, telling his sons that your sons are not family. Of course, when we go out and have romantic dinners (about once a week) I cover the cost, and we usually give each other gifts every month or so, but those are extras. So a couple may have originally thought they wanted to have a big wedding with lots of guests but then end up going down the route of eloping. They said they would pay for the shower. Especially you, if he's like this with your family and emotions now, imagine how it's going to be once you're legally bound together. I have a feeling that the parents would do exactly that cos they seem like good decent people. Son Tells His Parents Hell Never Speak To Them Again After Finding Out Theyre Paying For Sisters Education Yet Didnt Pay For His, I Used AI To See What These 30 Popular Cartoon Characters Would Look Like In Real Life, And Here's The Result (New Pics), 50 Frightening Pics That Make Us Want To Stay As Far Away From The Ocean As Possible (New Pics), Someone Asks "What Makes You Not Want To Have Kids?" A few months ago we said to our family and friends that only a few select people will be making speeches, and giving them a fairly strict time limit. ._3Z6MIaeww5ZxzFqWHAEUxa{margin-top:8px}._3Z6MIaeww5ZxzFqWHAEUxa ._3EpRuHW1VpLFcj-lugsvP_{color:inherit}._3Z6MIaeww5ZxzFqWHAEUxa svg._31U86fGhtxsxdGmOUf3KOM{color:inherit;fill:inherit;padding-right:8px}._3Z6MIaeww5ZxzFqWHAEUxa ._2mk9m3mkUAeEGtGQLNCVsJ{font-family:Noto Sans,Arial,sans-serif;font-size:14px;font-weight:400;line-height:18px;color:inherit} My dream is to get an RV and travel around the world with my dog. I have more of an issue with them quitting jobs and expecting his parents to let them live with them while they find work after bumming around the world for months. .LalRrQILNjt65y-p-QlWH{fill:var(--newRedditTheme-actionIcon);height:18px;width:18px}.LalRrQILNjt65y-p-QlWH rect{stroke:var(--newRedditTheme-metaText)}._3J2-xIxxxP9ISzeLWCOUVc{height:18px}.FyLpt0kIWG1bTDWZ8HIL1{margin-top:4px}._2ntJEAiwKXBGvxrJiqxx_2,._1SqBC7PQ5dMOdF0MhPIkA8{vertical-align:middle}._1SqBC7PQ5dMOdF0MhPIkA8{-ms-flex-align:center;align-items:center;display:-ms-inline-flexbox;display:inline-flex;-ms-flex-direction:row;flex-direction:row;-ms-flex-pack:center;justify-content:center} They are still not looking for jobs and they are having an extravagant wedding and wanting everyone else to pay for everything including asking for money in lieu of wedding gifts. Fight boredom with iPhones and iPads here. If you really want her there, then pay, otherwise she can stay at home. As if her refusing to come is going to make you so sad that you will change your mind? Therefore, whenever we need to pay for something, I pay 67% of it, and she's paying the remaining 33%. You only have so much of it to spend, so you have to make sure to spend it with the people you cherish and who cherish you. She is very interested in sustainable fashion and is a perfect companion to go to second-hand shops and antiques for nearly anything: clothes, books or furniture. Create an account to follow your favorite communities and start taking part in conversations. Employers don't like that ho~hum attitude, either. It's the "don't post to FB" episode. The creator of the site explained: We always say to couples that they should try and not put too much pressure on themselves from both a financial and an emotional perspective. When someone does this, it's time to pick up the phone. Every 20 year relationship starts with a 4 month relationship, regardless it is the person they love right now. The specialists revealed that this is not a very common occurrence, adding: The more common scenario is for couples to completely change their minds before the actual planning starts. After many years working in the service industry, in many different States, there is one thing a lot of people don't realize. Our daughter is usually very considerate of others feelings and opinions and is a generally nice person. A woman and her fiance got invited to go on holiday by car, and it turned out they would have to endure a screaming baby and bad odors for the whole trip Image credits: 55555551i2 The original poster on the Reddit subforum embarked on a road trip with her fiance's family and it went quite poorly from the get-go. I have attended numerous wedding, sometimes far away, I always paid for it. My 2-year-old son can't attend, either. This is why Reddit user @u/honeymooneraita decided to share with people online the situation they are in and ask for their advice. A lot of users online agreed with the man, stating that she isnt entitled to this money, its seen more as the parents generous offer. ju. At that time we hadn't discussed the rules yet, we just knew it would be very strict. You're getting married somewhere close to wherever you live. For context, OP is getting married soon. We also have so little in common. She's known you're getting married likely for months now. This page may contain sensitive or adult content that's not for everyone. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I decided to go against my father's wishes and not invite all of his cousins' kids to my wedding. This is a huge red flag and your fiance is not making a good decision here.~Top-Ad-2676, This is spot on. Hey Pandas, What Was Your Popular Moment? Contest mode is 1.5 hours long on this post. (Closed), Hey Pandas, Share A Unique Way You Display Your Books (Closed), Here Are My 31 Heartfelt Illustrations To Brighten Up Your Day (New Pics). We respect your privacy. Sounds like someone who doesn't plan ahead. 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Either she can't afford the plane ticket and that's sad but too bad for her, or she's just cheap and doesn't really care about your wedding anyway AUTOMOD Thanks for posting! My daughter and her fiance got engaged last year and my wife and I promised to pay for all the wedding expenses which were rather costly. CareyHope/Getty Images. There are so many views that I haven't even considered and you are all right in your own way. They now own 3 homes as they just purchased a second rental property. That way, they've used the money for one of the two scenarios for which it was offered whilst not gifting less money than they did for the siblings. ._9ZuQyDXhFth1qKJF4KNm8{padding:12px 12px 40px}._2iNJX36LR2tMHx_unzEkVM,._1JmnMJclrTwTPpAip5U_Hm{font-size:16px;font-weight:500;line-height:20px;color:var(--newCommunityTheme-bodyText);margin-bottom:40px;padding-top:4px;text-align:left;margin-right:28px}._2iNJX36LR2tMHx_unzEkVM{-ms-flex-align:center;align-items:center;display:-ms-flexbox;display:flex}._2iNJX36LR2tMHx_unzEkVM ._24r4TaTKqNLBGA3VgswFrN{margin-left:6px}._306gA2lxjCHX44ssikUp3O{margin-bottom:32px}._1Omf6afKRpv3RKNCWjIyJ4{font-size:18px;font-weight:500;line-height:22px;border-bottom:2px solid var(--newCommunityTheme-line);color:var(--newCommunityTheme-bodyText);margin-bottom:8px;padding-bottom:8px}._2Ss7VGMX-UPKt9NhFRtgTz{margin-bottom:24px}._3vWu4F9B4X4Yc-Gm86-FMP{border-bottom:1px solid var(--newCommunityTheme-line);margin-bottom:8px;padding-bottom:2px}._3vWu4F9B4X4Yc-Gm86-FMP:last-of-type{border-bottom-width:0}._2qAEe8HGjtHsuKsHqNCa9u{font-size:14px;font-weight:500;line-height:18px;color:var(--newCommunityTheme-bodyText);padding-bottom:8px;padding-top:8px}.c5RWd-O3CYE-XSLdTyjtI{padding:8px 0}._3whORKuQps-WQpSceAyHuF{font-size:12px;font-weight:400;line-height:16px;color:var(--newCommunityTheme-actionIcon);margin-bottom:8px}._1Qk-ka6_CJz1fU3OUfeznu{margin-bottom:8px}._3ds8Wk2l32hr3hLddQshhG{font-weight:500}._1h0r6vtgOzgWtu-GNBO6Yb,._3ds8Wk2l32hr3hLddQshhG{font-size:12px;line-height:16px;color:var(--newCommunityTheme-actionIcon)}._1h0r6vtgOzgWtu-GNBO6Yb{font-weight:400}.horIoLCod23xkzt7MmTpC{font-size:12px;font-weight:400;line-height:16px;color:#ea0027}._33Iw1wpNZ-uhC05tWsB9xi{margin-top:24px}._2M7LQbQxH40ingJ9h9RslL{font-size:12px;font-weight:400;line-height:16px;color:var(--newCommunityTheme-actionIcon);margin-bottom:8px} She should support your big day by paying for a ticket, or kindly say she cannot attend due to finances. Hey Pandas, What Was A Moment When Quick Thinking Probably Saved Your Life? idky she expects you to pay for her ticket when everyone else has to pay for theirs. Yes. Half are now flying to the place we are getting married, and paying for their own plane tickets. She kinda agrees with it being a small wedding, though, she'd like to invite family members with which she hasn't even spoken in years (to quote her: "they're still family overall, it's not nice"). There's the spouse, kids, friends, parents. Weddings are boring, if you want people to enjoy them they should have someone to enjoy it with. lol. Create an account to follow your favorite communities and start taking part in conversations. 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Please listen to the people here who have experienced this. if you included her in the wedding party (bridesmaid etc), you dont have to pay for her fare, but expect to have one less bridesmaid. You are free. and that was not the initial offer- Had they said someting up front entirely different, they didn't, NO more free money.). They want me to use my savings that I have carefully planned out to pay for my college so that I can graduate without debt to pay for the bridal shower and wedding transportation. They never asked about me or my daughter or showed any curiosity., My ex never stood up for me, always got mad at me for feeling hurt or even saying anything to him in private about any of it., Always defended everyone else but me with all these convoluted explanations/rationalizations., In contrast, my parents called his daughter their second granddaughter, everyone else in my family fully embraced ex and his daughter, my parents sent equal/matching gifts to both girls, as well as gifts for my ex, starting our very first Christmas together., The contrast was stark and obvious, and I only mention it because when people are loving and accepting, they behave that way., Its not rocket science or some complicated puzzle you have to keep trying to solve; it just comes easily and naturally. Be delicate, but don't back down. 787 top end rebuild; can you. We are doing a small wedding and only inviting 20 guests. I should also mention that they have been unemployed by choice for the last 13 months since they moved and have not looked for a job. INFO: what do you mean by being generous? 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